How to forget the pain of one-sided love and move forward in life?

The feeling of breaking love is really very sad. All those who have broken love at least once in their life will agree with this statement. But if there is something worse than breaking up love, it is one-sided love. This means a strange situation. You love a man (maybe the other way around), but you can't say anything to him, he walks in front of your eyes and you sigh and wipe your tears from behind, it's a bit one-sided. And somehow, you told him your feelings but he didn't find out, so it's even more difficult. Because in this case, the pain of being rejected and the feeling of humiliation are added to not getting the love of the loved one. Later, many can raise their heads again, but the memory of that one-sided love remains deep in the chest, life's precious time is wasted in between!

How to forget the pain of one-sided love and move forward in life?

Now the question is, when that wound is fresh, at the moment when you are stroking one-sided love, the time that is wasting, is there any way to ease the pain? What if you can clear your mind a little? We try to show the way.

be mentally prepared
The moment you have a special feeling for someone in your mind, you need to be a little mentally prepared. Please note that this sentiment is completely yours. The person on the other end may not respond. If you prepare yourself mentally, the suffering will be less.

do not stop
Let him know what you have in mind, either through letters or messages. Then you will be able to understand their thoughts. For a long time, the idea of ​​Akashkusum will not be able to take root. If you don't answer him, the way forward in your life will be open.

it is normal to suffer
If you don't get the expected response from him, don't hold back the pain in your mind. Your emotions have value, it does not mean denying them. Spend time with yourself, feel your pain. Gradually the pain will begin to fade. The situation will not change overnight, give yourself that time.

Watch your health
The unexpected response to love has happened in the lives of many more people before you, and it will happen in the lives of countless people after you. You are not alone. As a result, if you stop eating because of the pain of not being loved, you are being unfair to yourself and to all the other responsibilities you have. Eat well, exercise lightly. If the body is healthy, the head will also function properly.

keep the confidence
Not being successful in a love affair should not erode your self-confidence. Wear nice clothes, dress well. Read good books. Immerse yourself in what you love to do. Gradually life will start to feel new again.

do not lose hope
In no way do I want to convey that I recommend that the mother be inactive. Trust your abilities, focus on building your future. Surely a beautiful life is waiting for you!

Don't let love become obsession.
This point is the most important. Sometimes people behave strangely when they don't get the expected response from people they like. Constantly monitoring him on social media, harassing him on the phone or texting, being suicidal are all signs of obsession. Never fall into this trap. Try to get out of this mentality. If it is not possible, you have to take the help of a counselor!
Kashem Mir (born 05 Oct. 1998) is a Bangladeshi blogger author. He is the founder of Bangla Zoom. He's official Facebook fan page name "Kashem Mir". He started his blogging career in 20…

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